1 post tagged “emotion”

                   Hello all.  Today is the day for a little personal rant about something that's been stewing for quite some time.  This rant is about 'takers'. 

                   Now, to be fair and just, 'takers' wouldn't be who they are without people like me.  I'm a 'giver'.  I really like to give.  In the past, I have given money, objects, favors and support to people that I consider a friend.  Perhaps I jump too quickly into the friendship canoe, but hey, I like very few people, and when I like you, I give.

                   And I'm not ranting because I expect THINGS back in return.  Oh, no.  No money at all do I seek.  I think that I really just give to show that I respect and like someone, and I hope to receive friendship and respect in return.  Just a little. 

                   But time, after time, after time, my hopes have been dashed upon the pointy rocks of reality.  And the reality is that the more that you do for some people, the less that they think of doing anything for you.  Your kind words, gestures and proven solidarity are taken for granted and you become...well, wiped on.  I have had this happen over the years.  It always stings, but sometimes, it really hurts.

                   So, readers, few but kind, let me know how you honestly feel.  I need to gain a different viewpoint, and if you think that I'm to blame, then tell me!  It's the only way that I may begin to learn.